SHANE WACHLIN, MA, MFT-C, PCC

Shane is a Boulder-based therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families to help them build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Drawing inspiration from his experiences in the United States Marine Corps, guiding wilderness expeditions with Outward Bound, and his travels in remote areas around the world, Shane brings a unique and grounded perspective to his work. Shane specializes in trauma therapy, couples therapy, and family therapy, and brings a deep sense of purpose to his practice. With advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), EMDR, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Shane offers an integrative approach to support his clients in navigating life’s challenges and building meaningful connections.

SHANE’S EXPERIENCE

Shane earned his Master's in Family and Couples Therapy at Regis University in Denver, Colorado. An appreciation for how our relationships and attachment to others deeply informs his works with individuals. He is trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) which offers a powerful framework for helping clients—whether individuals, couples, or families—access and share their emotions to foster healing and deeper connections. Shane is adept at working with both individuals and relational dynamics, a skill that sets him apart and allows him to help clients in ways that are meaningful and lasting.

When working with couples and families, Shane focuses on creating strong, secure connections. He helps folks understand their needs, improve communication, and build the skills necessary for lasting, healthy relationships. As a result, individuals often feel more loved, connected, and experience less anxiety and disappointment in their relationships.

SHANE’S STYLE

Shane is known for being approachable and easy to talk to—a therapist you could imagine chatting with on the street. His laid-back style pairs with a strong educational background and advanced therapeutic skills, making him especially effective in session. He creates a warm and compassionate environment where clients feel truly heard and understood. Shane has a natural ability to keep up with everyone in the room, offering deep, attentive listening that feels effortless for both him and his clients.

Shane’s therapeutic style is rooted in a humanistic approach, believing in each person’s innate drive to seek wellness, meaning, and connection. His work is also heavily influenced by Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a trauma-informed, evidence-based approach that helps individuals and couples access and share their emotions to create secure, healthy relationships. Additionally, Shane’s training in EMDR allows him to support clients in processing trauma, while Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps individuals clarify their values and pursue meaningful change in their lives. Whether working with individuals or relationships, Shane brings compassion, warmth, and empathy into each session, empowering his clients to understand their own needs and create lasting, positive shifts.